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Guess Who’s Back (and Hopefully Better)?

AJ Oberlender • December 1, 2024
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Hey everyone, it’s AJ Oberlender here—your favorite witty, occasionally frazzled dad, and Miami sports enthusiast. It’s been a minute (or, you know, several) since I’ve updated this blog. Between raising two amazing daughters, Yael and Diana, juggling life at DoorLoop, and running a couple of side hustles (I'll mention them from time to time), things got… let’s just say busy.


But no more excuses. Starting now, I’m making a commitment to show up here more often. Whether it’s sharing branding tips, diving into the joys of fatherhood, chatting about Miami sports, movies, or religion this blog is where I’m putting my thought energy. Expect insights, laughs, and the occasional dad joke (you’ve been warned).


I’m excited to bring this space back to life and share more of the journey with you.


Let’s do this. 🚀

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